I received a surprise phone call last week—an out-of-town
relative was coming for a visit!
Just when I was overwhelmed with sadness and
frustration and loss of plan (over not yet owning an RV), the Good Dog came to
town and gave me the best of his goodness.
I had not seen this Good Dog in over a year; I’ve never spent a lot of
time with him. I wasn’t sure if he would
remember me.
And so I stood outside, waiting in my driveway for his
arrival, and as soon as he saw me, his entire body started wagging with happy
greeting!
This Good Dog is the best trained I’ve ever seen. He doesn’t jump; he doesn’t bark; he doesn’t
pull on his leash. And most amazing,
when his Mom takes him into a new surrounding (such as my home) she slowly
walks him (with his step just behind hers) into each room that he is “allowed”
to go into. If she hasn’t “introduced”
him to a room, he won’t go into it. No
gates are required!
Even though my kitchen is open to my living room, and
even though I have a powder room connecting to the living room, he will not
enter either of those rooms, unless invited into them. He will not enter into them even if no human
is around!
His Mom also trained him to be “introduced” to the
people-stuff that he can interact with, and if not “introduced” to it, he
leaves it alone. For example, at his
home, he knows he can sit and lay down on the sofa because she introduced him
to it. At my home, his Mom did not
introduce him to any furniture, so he never jumped on any furniture.
But what I love most of all, is how happy and confident
this Good Dog is—and what a great life he now has. You see, he was a rescue dog
from a shelter. And the really sad
story? He was in that shelter over a
YEAR before my relative, His Mom, found and rescued him, accepting everything
about him including the name they gave him:
Chicito.
Why was he in the shelter so long? Probably because he is completely blind in his
right eye and also suffers from the large-black-dog syndrome that shelters
describe.
The shelter told his Mom that a pit bull got hold of
him and damaged his right eye. Looking
at him, you can’t tell. The vet didn’t
believe it as he was so agile on his leash.
But when she brought her thumb close to his eye, from the blind side, he
didn’t even blink. And it is painfully
obvious that he has no sight on his right side as he occasionally walks into an
object to the right of his view, such as a park bench or chair.
This Good Dog, Chicito, had no training until his Mom
rescued him. He was a frightened,
damaged, two year old that didn’t know how to walk on a leash or how to trust
humans. I almost took a hard spill the
first time I walked him on a sidewalk. A
car went by and he basically fell into me in fear, and I tripped over him. Three years later? He is a healthy, confident, happy Good One.
His one good eye has all the Border Collie brightness
you would expect. He is smart as a
whip. He exudes love and a sense of
family belonging that all of us crave.
So there I stood on my driveway, not knowing if he
would remember me, and for the first time EVER, I saw him pull on his leash—coming
toward me with that entire body wag that says “I’m thrilled to see you!” Jump up on me? Of course not. But even his Mom was a bit surprised by his
obvious exuberance at seeing me after all this time.
And if he really, really loves you, he’ll come and sit on his back legs and extend both front legs, one at a time, ever so gently, for you to have and to
hold. (no food or treat involved). He began this behavior awhile after his Mom had showered him with love and security. I've since read that this is a Border Collie behavior; their form of a really good hug.
Although not a good photo, it looks as if I’m lifting
Mr. Chicito’s right paw in this photo. In
fact, he is extending it to me. And when
I take it, up comes the other paw! And
boy does he make eye contact with the warmest and smartest of self-awareness.
This other not-so-good photo shows his greeting. His Mom tells me he doesn’t do this with just
anyone:
I bought a doggy daybed last winter when I was hoping
to adopt. Mr. Chicito let me know it was
perfectly comfortable. Even though the
mat was larger than his body, he liked to hang his head off of it, just like
Greyhounds that I’ve met.
Note the ear perked up.
This Good Boy might look asleep, but he was an active listener to a relative’s
conversation. (Of course we were mainly
talking about how wonderful he is—what Good Boy wouldn’t listen to two women
sending praise his way?)
This past week brought a lot of much needed rain and little
outdoor time. I decided to include a photo
of Mr. Chicito and me from two years ago. He
looks just the same. But as his Mom
noted, I’ve now got a good bit more grey hair!
(And yes, I have him on a leash—but the magic of Photoshop let me erase
it.)
And when will I see this Good Boy again? I never know.
I just give thanks for the days that I do, and the joy that he brings my
way.